I'm allowed to, I'm just not going to because his or her bad management of me shouldn't affect how she or he handled you.
I mean, I do find it relevant to my vote. If someone I want to vote for was actually very poor at handling people that can and should be held against them. Both from a social game assessment perspective, but also I don't want to vote for someone thinking they were great only to find out that when it counted they were kind of a jerkass. Maybe not say it while emotions are high but at some point probably would be fair to.
Also I think the issue was that you played the early game and were so universally liked that you were going to end up a juicy target because when the main thing said about you is "Oh I love Raph, but so does everyone" that immediately means the knives are coming out at some point. You did handle that position about as well as you could, but you needed to somehow also tank in a way that people thought you stood no chance in the end while also not actually ending your endgame chances which is probably even more difficult then it sounds and it sounds difficult. That or mist everyone to keep you because they just like you so goddam much, but this cast doesn't seem very mistable.