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Post Post #2075 (ISO) » Fri Jan 11, 2008 1:59 pm

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Nemesis wrote:
Shanba wrote:"Stupid religion" does come into it, though. You can't ride roughshod over someone's beliefs just because you don't share them. Hell, they might be right, and you might be wrong. It's similar to why you wouldn't call a Greek Cypriot a stupid fucking Turk: you know it's going to offend them and you're going out of your way to
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Well, when I said 'stupid religion' I meant the everything that comes with religion. I wasn't calling one particular religion stupid, just the amount of offense people take to the smallest thing. The thing I was calling stupid isn't the belief itself but the lynchmob nature of them. Name one other thing that could cause death threats and riots because of a cartoon?
You've missed my point. I wasn't disagreeing or agreeing with you over whether religion was stupid, I was making the point that it's cruel to insult people beacuse of their religion. They could be a part of the church of the flying spahgetti monster for all it matters, but if they care enough about it, then insulting their beliefs is callous and deliberately inflammatory.

Calling him a cow is different, in this case, because of the context (which is also what makes teasing him about possibly being gay offensive). The cow joke is a long running joke established throughout the site/scumchat and anyway, cow is not an insult that is particularly offensive.
Well, consider no humans are actually cows... And some humans are actually gay... And being gay isn't a bad thing. I would 100% prefer to be called gay to being called a cow. (Although neither would offend me.)

The entire way of looking at this, that gay = bad and cow = meh... That's offensive. Being called gay might mean you are funny, have good taste, can dance, are tidy, etc... Based on the stereotype, people can joke about people being gay and it be a compliment. (Although granted, most gay people I know don't actually fit into the sterotype.)
I'm not arguing this point, again. Whether or not gay is "good" or "bad" is irrelevant. It's whether the words are offensive to a certain person. Similarly, you would not call someone who fought in ww2 and watched their friends die a nazi. Whether being gay is good or bad is irrelevant, it's still an insult designed specifically to offend a person.

And yeah, cow is a long established joke but when it was originally made it was more an insult to a state. (Insulting people's homestate = offensive to some.)
You don't get it, do you? With someone who is religious, their religion is the most important thing. It has to be. That's the point of religion. Going at it half arsed is just as bad as not being religious at all. As such, religion is much more volatile, and much closer to someone's heart than where their homestate is.

Also, I'm not sure it's true that that was where the joke came from, but eh. That's beside the point.
I don't see why everyone is making a big deal over this when titles sometimes are negative things.
If I nominated you for the title "Stupid Fucking Cuntweasel" then the negativity might be just slightly too much, don't you think?
That's one hell of an extreme you are going to there. But I can just say no and not be bothered. That wouldn't get passed because of the profanity anyway. I'm not going to get upset over something like that, there's no reason to.

That is the extreme to which religion goes, though. In it's adherents, it is (or demands to be) the first thing on their minds and in their hearts. You
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go there. Like I wouldn't make a joke about someone if they had just died to their best friend. (This is contextual, it's true, but so it the religion thing.)
Religion is a touchy business - it claims to be the ultimate answer and some people believe that.
Pffft. No scientist would take an evolution joke as a reason to put someone on a deathlist.
Science is rational, religion is by definition not rational. Sure, the reactions are extreme. But that is not representative of the mainstream religious views, and it does not legitimise taking revenge.
Whether they are right or not is irrelevant
That's true. My religious beliefs are irrelevant. It doesn't matter if I believe a pink elephant orbiting the universe would take offense to me going to a zoo... If I believe that, then whether I'm right or not shouldn't affect how a title request is viewed.

But that also works the other way. Just because I believe in my pink elephant, it doesn't mean that any title request about not going to zoos should be slammed, just because it's against my religion.
If it is offensive, then yes it should be slammed. You should not be allowed to impose your religious views on others uninvited, sure. But they should not be allowed to mock your religion either.

Also, you misinterpreted my argument, and took it out of context. The point I was making was that someone may be mistaken over their religion, but that doesn't give you the right to go out and attack them because of it. They have a right to believe what they want. Imposing a title on them offensive to their religion (and you know it is, too) is over the line.
it's whether their beliefs have a right to be respected
Well I'm not intending to turn this thread into a religious debate, I could try and convince people that their religion is wrong, I don't do it... That is about the most respect I'll give a belief. I don't even name all the bad things religions have done.

But hell, if someone makes a suggestion that is based on something valid but is exaggerated for comedic effect, that suggestion shouldn't cause the reaction it has. The suggestion is within the rules and those rules are the only thing that defines what is ok and what isn't.

People can believe whatever the hell they want to believe as long as nothing changes because of it.
This is all beside the point. What does this have to do with one person insulting another's religious beliefs? Sure, religions have done bad things. It's interesting to note, though, that many of those bad things were politically motivated as well.
At any rate, going out of your way to offend them is not the answer.
I actually wasn't going out of my way to offend anyone. I may have been unclear with the "stupid religion" comment, which I have hopefully clarified. But that's the only thing that I think could be considered offensive.

Especially when this all started because the suggestion "doesn't want to be gay despite his repressed feelings" was made into a funny title. It has a bit of truth to it so can be considered valid. I don't think religion has to come into it. I don't see why religious views are treated as a set of moral views with the added benefit of acting as a shield.
Wow.

You've sidestepped the point so far you've hit it on the rebound. The thing that was deliberately offensive was the title suggestion. Sarcastro was suggesting the title because he knew hasdgfas would react badly to it. I don't really think there's any other interpretation. If he didnt realise that, he's an idiot, and I don't think Sarc is an idiot.

If you start mocking a fat kid because he's fat, will that help any? Will that not make the situation worse? What do you gain from it? Scoring points? Sarc scored points, sure. But he did it in a completely inapproppriate manner.
If my religion said all people with the letter "A" in their name were descended from whores, would my religion protect me from being held accountable?
No, but that's beside the point. If someone insulted you by saying you had an a in your name, though, that would be akin to the situation.

What the hell makes religion so special anyway? There's no way I think I should pussyfoot around something because circular logic is believed by a lot of people. In mafia games we deal with circular logic all the time, I didn't expect many people to actually be religious when all day they see logic exactly like they believe being taken apart so easily.
Urm, I think this is off-topic. To answer the first line, though, it's how much it means to people. Religion is supposed to be the answer to life. When you are religious, your religion defines you. You can't go around attacking people for their religions. That's intolerance, and cruelty. Sure, religions have done it too, but that doesn't give you any right to attack him.

They should be used to it by now... And no matter how offensive I am seen as being, I am holding back. I'm pussyfooting around it all anyway, just to be nice. And damn, it is taking most of my willpower.
Bleh. I'm done with this argument. After this, I'm not sure I altogether respect your stance on religion, but that's beside the point.
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Post Post #2076 (ISO) » Fri Jan 11, 2008 2:16 pm

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This debate is really weird. My two cents (although considering the time on the site and my experience in general, they are worth much less than that):

A person should have the right to veto a title that they really don't like. In this case, hasd should have a right not to take the titles about his sexuality and religion if he really doesn't like them, even if they are otherwise approved. It's his title. Granted, other people nominated ideas, but he shouldn't have to carry around a title that he hates just because some other players thought it fit him well. Why not nominate him for a title that he actually likes?
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Post Post #2077 (ISO) » Fri Jan 11, 2008 2:43 pm

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I agree this debate is weird. If not for site suckiness, I'd start trying to figure out what's the right way to split this off into a separate thread.
Thestatusquo wrote:Lastly, since when are negative titles not allowed? Thoks title isn't given to him for a warm and fuzzy reason. Titles are given to people for memorable events which are indicative of who a person is. If you don't think any of the suggestions for his title are valid in that respect, then fine, disagree on those grounds, but I think that it's silly for you to stand up here and expect that no negative titles can ever be made ever.
For the reference, there's a major difference between my title and Sarcastro's suggestion for hasdgfas, which is that my title had my implicit approval even before the nomination was made.

In addition, I don't particularly see how any of the non "Moo" titles are really an improvement for hasdgfas. Unless he's secretly a priest or a minister, I don't think "Holy Cow" is a good idea.

Part of me wants to make fun of all of this with the somewhat sly "Don't have a man, cow!"
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Post Post #2078 (ISO) » Fri Jan 11, 2008 3:23 pm

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Nominate Shanba for "So Win"


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Post Post #2079 (ISO) » Fri Jan 11, 2008 4:20 pm

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Nemesis wrote: And yeah, cow is a long established joke but when it was originally made it was more an insult to a state. (Insulting people's homestate = offensive to some.)
Right, but I believe that if I had been offended/insulted by it they would all have stopped calling me that as I try not to be deliberately insulting to someone and I believe that the same thing is true with JD and the rest of the people that started the 'cow' joke.
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Thok wrote: Part of me wants to make fun of all of this with the somewhat sly "Don't have a man, cow!"
:lol: That one is, IMO, the best suggested title that isn't "Moo".
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jdodge1019: vermont is made of liberal freaks and cows
jdodge1019: he's not a liberal
jdodge1019: thus he is a cow
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Post Post #2080 (ISO) » Fri Jan 11, 2008 4:40 pm

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Dammit, Nemesis! You too, Shanba. This has already been resolved - I explained my actions and desisted, so why are we still talking about it here? Go somewhere else.
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Post Post #2081 (ISO) » Sat Jan 12, 2008 4:12 am

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Shanba, I fully appreciate you being done with the arguement. So I'm not going to press things.

Just 2 points which you don't have to respond to:
Imposing a title on them offensive to their religion (and you know it is, too) is over the line.
Imposing seems to imply I was all for forcing someone to have a title they don't want. I never said that. My original point was "Budda was here" can be suggested for a Jew... It's only a suggestion and doesn't have to be taken seriously.

I didn't say trying to upset people with title suggestions was a good thing either. Just that if you don't suspect Sarc of trying to be annoying then it shouldn't cause a riot.

But as you say, I don't have any idea what religions mean to people because I've never been religious (unless you count anti-religion atheism and the fact that I (personally, while trying not to say whether I'm right or wrong) take religion as a joke. (Because if I didn't then I'd be looking at eternal torture in the heretic circle of hell and no one wants that.)
After this, I'm not sure I altogether respect your stance on religion
It is the cloest thing to prejudice that I have... (Which is ironic, because the prejudice is for the preachers due to their prejudice and hypocrisy.) I wouldn't say my stance on religion is deserving of respect. But because of the lack of religious hatred for those who don't respect my views on religion, I can quite happily not mind who respects or doesn't respect my stance on religion, purely because it isn't that important to me. I'm not going to hold grudges or anything...
Aegor wrote: A person should have the right to veto a title that they really don't like. In this case, hasd should have a right not to take the titles about his sexuality and religion if he really doesn't like them, even if they are otherwise approved. It's his title. Granted, other people nominated ideas, but he shouldn't have to carry around a title that he hates just because some other players thought it fit him well. Why not nominate him for a title that he actually likes?
They have that right, this has come up before... The person always has the right to veto a title suggestion for them. (Which is why I saw this as being a little crazy.)
Thok wrote:I'd start trying to figure out what's the right way to split this off into a separate thread.
Create a thread discussion religion and you create a mix between WWIII and the worst flamefest in history... Besides, we're done now. (I think.)
hasdgfas wrote:Right, but I believe that if I had been offended/insulted by it they would all have stopped calling me that as I try not to be deliberately insulting to someone and I believe that the same thing is true with JD and the rest of the people that started the 'cow' joke.
Yeah, I'm not saying they would continue to call you a cow if you minded. I'm just saying that every joke has potential to offend.

You were being reasonable about this anyway. Your reaction was fairly simple with no over-reaction or anything. Despite you being at the center of this, I actually see very little reason to have a problem with you.
Sarcastro wrote:Dammit, Nemesis!
LOL.
so why are we still talking about it here?
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Post Post #2082 (ISO) » Sat Jan 12, 2008 4:11 pm

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raise your hand if you care about the shanba nemesis argument.
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Post Post #2083 (ISO) » Sat Jan 12, 2008 9:34 pm

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*raises hand and then takes it down again so that he will be noticed for not raising his hand :P*
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Post Post #2084 (ISO) » Mon Jan 14, 2008 11:34 pm

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ed: I posted a diatribe against the attitude of religious people that religion should be protected for fear of hurting peoples' feelings here.

It was not appropriate to the Title Fairy Thread, so I removed it.

Many apologies for the bad placement of a valid argument ;)
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Post Post #2085 (ISO) » Wed Jan 16, 2008 12:30 am

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Not only that, you completely undermined your argument by admitting to having damp hair. I was with you up until then...
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Post Post #2086 (ISO) » Wed Jan 16, 2008 12:42 am

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it was raining!
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Post Post #2087 (ISO) » Wed Jan 16, 2008 12:44 am

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Isn't it usually doing that in London?
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Post Post #2088 (ISO) » Wed Jan 16, 2008 12:55 am

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Eh, not that ubiquitously. Certainly not enough to make my hair damp in the five minute walk from the tube, with shelter half the time.
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Post Post #2089 (ISO) » Wed Jan 16, 2008 12:57 am

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GL mole: i feel bad about revealing adele's damp hair to the world now
GL mole: i should have just let it go after she deleted her post
thesheamuffin: heh
GL mole: but... that kind of shit has no place in a discussion about religion
thesheamuffin: What, fact?
thesheamuffin: Or wet hair?
thesheamuffin: Or both?
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Post Post #2090 (ISO) » Wed Jan 16, 2008 2:17 am

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nominate Adele for wet hair


nominate mole for Adele bullier


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Post Post #2091 (ISO) » Wed Jan 16, 2008 2:23 am

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ok apparently Im not allowed to touch moles title on pain of death... sorry

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Post Post #2092 (ISO) » Sun Jan 20, 2008 11:48 am

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I support "Dammit, Nemesis" for Nemesis, Dammit

I also nominate myself for "I'm a jerk" so that people will not be surprised when I act like a jerk.
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Post Post #2093 (ISO) » Sun Jan 20, 2008 2:00 pm

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No self-noms
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Post Post #2094 (ISO) » Sun Jan 20, 2008 10:06 pm

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Nominate Adele for "Big Sister".


Reasons:

1. She is the RL sister of a number of Scummers - I think she is the Big Sister of at least one of them.

2. She often plays the role of the Big Sister on the Site: making sensible, rational points in an attempt to stop the more excitable posters (i.e. her virtual Little Brothers) from squabbling.

3. She is cool and deserves a title.

As an alternative, I would support "Wet hair" for her.
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Post Post #2095 (ISO) » Mon Jan 21, 2008 3:06 am

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second Adele for "Big Sister"


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Third Adele for "Big Sister".
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Post Post #2097 (ISO) » Mon Jan 21, 2008 8:35 am

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fourth'd.
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Post Post #2098 (ISO) » Mon Jan 21, 2008 8:48 am

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nominate "here long before Adel" for Adele

... just as an alternative.
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Post Post #2099 (ISO) » Mon Jan 21, 2008 8:53 am

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Adel wrote:nominate "here long before Adel" for Adele

... just as an alternative.
Big Sister is a much better title.
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