You-Tar as a pairing is purely PoE (from my point of view) if Empking's not scum. I don't think Crazy-you is a possible pairing, so it's either Crazy-Tar or you-Tar. I'd put Crazy-Tar ahead of you, but the reason I consider you-Tar possible is I have a sneaking concern that you didn't really push his slot as hard as you could have (voting and unvoting him D2, and letting me vs DGB hog the attention on D4 rather than pushing hard for a Tar lynch).
In essence the plan i suggested is just proposing this:
*we select a cross-voting pair, and
*the pair we select to cross-vote should be the ones we mutually agree have the best possible chance of
For me personally, the two players I find scummiest as individuals are Crazy and Empking, and I think they're the most likely scum-pairing. If I'm thinking just in terms of my own vote, then I'd vote Crazy now.
But, I'd prefer if Tarhalindur and Empking cross-voted first, because
I thought Crazy and you would both agree with me that the scumpairings we each individually think possible all have Tarhalindur or Empking amongst them. (In your case because you called Crazy town, so if Empking's town, it's me-Tar scum; in Crazy's case because he believes you're only scum with Empking, so if Empking's town, it's me-Tar scum; in my case because I don't think you-Crazy is possible, so if Empking's town, it's Crazy-Tar or you-Tar scum).
But yes, if you are suspecting Crazy more now than before, then that opens up more possible pairings (like Crazy-me) from your perspective, so then this proposal loses its logic for you.