So we lost, fucking great. Jake made some comment in the tribe forum about "oh this would have been easier if it was about how people perceived you" like yeah, that's what it was? I mean, it was how people perceived you perceiving yourself, but yeah, you were supposed to think "what will people select for me", not "what do I think describes me" and hope everyone's right, sheesh.
Things haven't changed a lot, Scruff and Jake have been super busy and the rest are a bit less communicative by nature, so things were kind of quiet the past couple days. I guess I'll give a rundown:
Hannah - Same ol' same ol', light conversation, nothing super deep.
Leon - We've kept up our conversation about music, we don't have a huge amount of overlap, it's mostly my limited taste in recent pop and rap. The rap goes over a lot better with me. Our connection is shallow and I don't feel great about it but Scruff and Jake were so insistent early on about not wanting to vote the newbie out, make sure he has a good experience, blahblahblah that I feel obligated to seem cool with him.
Paul - Honestly, I feel like Paul might be the player I'm the most like here? He seems to be able to connect with people but doesn't feel obligated to do so compulsively (more on this with Jake), seems to view things strategically. I could easily see a world where I'm closest to him on the tribe, but because I got in with Jake and Scruff early I may not have pursued this as deeply as I could. If we swapped together I think I'd feel really good about it.
Scruff - still feel good overall about him. We'd basically talked through the next boot a couple days ago so we're on the same page I think. Both he and Jake did the "gosh I don't have an opinion between Paul and Hannah, what do you think" thing, which is a little frustrating, I was mostly straight with both of them about my preference for Paul staying.
Scruff also does the "I'm open to any other plans you might suggest" thing, which I think is mostly true but also is "I'm open to any red flags you feel like revealing". To really show him that I trust him, I was kind of frank about not feeling the greatest about Leon, while being clear that I was in no way suggesting that Leon go this round. And I mean, I really do want his thoughts on this, I hope he can see that I'm trying to be candid about something I do think we might disagree on. There's also a tiny part of me that wonders if when he does the "open to any other plans" thing, he's hoping I'll suggest we flip on Jake. I don't think that's the case but it'd be interesting if so.
Jake - So after a couple days of radio silence because he was busy, we got to talk some more tonight. Jake seems really intent on having non-game conversations, he really values (maybe overvalues?) them. For instance, when he was talking about Hannah and Paul, he was like "Hannah I connect with but we never talk game, and Paul we connected but our conversations seem businesslike" and like, I responded that I don't really have a problem with business-like relationships? Look, it's fun chitchatting about interests but I'm not making decisions in this game based on whether we both like the same TV show or both like RPGs, I value an ally with a similar game perception far more. Jake's also really hemming and hawing about not expressing a preference either way early on and I don't really get it. Like I expressed a preference because I trust that I can do that to you so it's not the best that you're not giving me the same thing back.
Maybe this is pretty calculated, I dunno, like he could be thinking that he'd rather keep the person that his allies would be least likely to flip to? But I don't think it's that, I think maybe Jake really really wants to be The Good Guy or cultivate that perception. Maybe I'm wrong and Hannah versus Paul is truly an agonizing decision, or maybe he's tempering all his responses to me based on what he thinks I'm looking for out of him, but I'd much prefer him to just go "yeah, I'd rather vote out X." Or maybe he's just sincerely indecisive.
So I'll be honest, if I could make it happen without burning any bridges, my ideal boot would be Leon, I think I'd have an easier time working with anyone else. I don't want to hold timezone differences against anyone but even with the timezone he has a weird activity schedule, and setting that aside, I've had to work to connect at all. Hannah I think is hesitant to say much gamewise but at the same time I could see those walls coming down more in a swap situation where it's obvious we have too be each others' new #1s in the moment.